Video clip of Elders Evans & Ehlen doing their talent for the zone conference time before last. Listen to the music and it'll make sense. Video clips of Diana's missionary decorated brownies.
APRIL 29, 2009 WEDNESDAY
This morning we got up and the first thing we had to take care of was the wash. We put the white batch in at 7:00 and then proceeded to get ready for the day. A little after 8:00 we took the white batch out of the washer and put the dark clothes in. We brought the whites back to our apartment and got the dryer going. Just when we were beginning to plan our day we got another distress email from Naeide telling us her son was at her door and could we please come. We hurried on over and, sure enough, Marcello was standing at her door. She wouldn’t let him in while she was alone. She unlocked the door for us and Diana went in while I stood in the doorway. Naeide had a discussion with Marcello from behind me; as the conversation went on it heated up. Finally the ultimatum was given that he could come in and get his things if he would leave immediately after. As soon as he was in he decided he didn’t want to leave. He said he had no where to go. We can’t repeat some of the things he called her or said to her and us and can’t rehearse all of what happened, but at one point he was fairly aggressive to us. This situation went back and forth for many hours and finally she gave him a deadline to be out of the house at noon. Finally he left at 12:30, but didn’t take anything with him because he had an appointment to talk to someone at a place where he hoped he could serve his three year apprenticeship. Naeide told him to call her when he wanted the stuff he’d packed and she would put it out on the porch for him to get, but he was absolutely not allowed back into the house. It is so difficult and heart-wrenching for a mother to have to put her son out on the street, but it was impossible for him to stay because of his mishandling of his mother. We hope Naeide stays strong and doesn’t let him back in until he has proven he has changed, which won’t happen overnight. His girlfriend had also thrown him out because of the same problem he has with her. Before he left, Naeide gave him the phone number of the apartment she had found for him, the number for the Social Department and the number from the Priest of his Reformed Church and fixed him a big lunch because he said he was hungry. We returned home at about 1:00 pm when we were sure he had really left the area.
We continued with our interrupted washing/drying. I had forgotten to take our cell phone with us this morning so we checked to see if we’d had any calls. Both Elder Pine had called and Elder Jensen. Elder Pine just wanted some information and Elder Jensen wanted to pick up his disks and hard drive he’d left at the Church after district meeting. We brought them up to speed on Naeide’s situation. We noticed his disks and hard drive at the Church after district meeting and brought them home for him. Elder Evans wanted a copy of a video clip of him and Elder Ehlen that I couldn’t find for him yesterday, but found it since. We’ll put it on the blog tonight. They came shortly after and picked them up, watched the video clip and then had an interesting story to tell us. Sometime after Marcello left Naeide’s home they saw him at the Burger King at Oerlikon and went in to talk to him. They said he acted as if nothing had happened, that he’d broken up with his girlfriend and thought he would now have a better chance to have a better relationship with his mother. Duh, huh? What is it with this guy? Soon after they left we got another call, this time from Charlotte. She asked if she could come over quick. When she got here, she had a planter with two vegetables planted in it with three chocolate ladybugs sitting on top of the dirt. She is so busy doing everything for the missionaries that we wonder how she affords the cost of the food and everything else. She also bought Elder Evans some socks because his has holes in them, kind of a going away present. Diana turned the tables on her and gave her a sunstone she had made from the mold we brought with us. Diana showed her a picture of the Nauvoo Temple and pointed out the sunstones. She really liked it and insisted we write our names on the back.
We stayed home today just to be near in case Naeide needs any more help or support from us. We texted her a message about 15 minutes ago asking if she was ok, but we haven’t got a response back. Even though we stayed home we were still busy. Elder Ehlen called to ask us to help him find an address on google maps and Elder Harris called to ask if Elder Pine could have one of our black pens and then again to get some more information on Ali Maddouri, a less-active member. We also brought them up to speed on Naeide’s situation in case we needed back up. Just as we were about ready to go see if Naeide was alright, she texted back and said when we texted, Marcello was there to pick up his packed belongings. He wanted a drink so she gave him one through a window and told him to leave. He picked up his stuff and left. It tears her heart out to have to turn her only son away, but she’s doing it out of love as well as self protection. Maybe he’ll realize he’s the one who’s responsible for what’s happening to him and make changes in his life for the better.
It was getting late and we had two birthday people to visit, fortunately both in the same house, Sister Rita Wichtermann and her son David. David returned from his mission to Russia a month or two ago. Since the Wichtermanns are the Outreach (formerly Institute) missionary couple for the stake, we let them know what was decided last night in the meeting between the Stake President and our Mission President. Pres. Bolt said he didn’t want the missionaries to conduct any more English classes within the boundaries of the Zurich Stake. The reason he gave was that he had been confronted with the question as to why were the missionaries teaching English classes, that it wasn’t in their job description. He said he couldn’t think of an adequate answer. Whoever Pres. Bolt had the conversation with accused the Church of lying, that the missionaries were using English class as a ruse to proselyte. There may also have been complaints from businesses who charge for language instruction, that we were taking business away from them. It’s a lame complaint because we have only had members and one investigator, Charlotte (who is now a member) come to our classes.
We had a nice visit with both of them and then we returned home. It was raining when we came home and we had forgotten our umbrella again so we got a little wet. Sis. Matern asked Diana to make some dessert to serve the missionaries at their going home dinner tomorrow. Diana said she only knew how to make brownies and Sister Matern said that would be alright. She decided to make them tonight so when we got home, she did just that. We also heated up the casserole Naeide brought us yesterday and ate it for dinner. It was pretty good, but needed a little more sauce on it because it was pretty dry. However, it was good and we appreciated her thoughtfulness.