JANUARY 23, 2010 SATURDAY
Rather than just go for a walk this morning, Diana suggested I look for the addresses of less-active members that live somewhere above us. We live at the very bottom of the hill and the roads and, in some cases long cement stairways, are pretty steep going up. I found two addresses on “Hochstrasse” (High Street) and one member still lives there and the other one had moved. The good thing about the second half of my walk was it was all downhill. The air is rather chill, but even though hands, nose and ears freeze, it’s easy to work up a sweat. While walking long Hochstrasse a lady sitting at a bus stop told me my backpack was unzipped. She jumped up and zipped it shut for me and this gave me a chance to ask her if she wanted to know more about our Church. She said no as her bus drove up, but she did take a pass along card.
This morning we tried to get on the internet to look up some addresses and telephone numbers, but were unsuccessful in connecting to it. The computer says we’re connected, but we get no service. Last night it was fine as long as we stayed in the basement, but today we get nothing. We got a returned call from our computer guy last night and he said he’d try and come again next Tuesday to try and find a solution so we can finally get service. Not only is it frustrating not to be able to do emails, post our journal or skype our kids, but it also hinders the work because we need it to look up addresses and bus connections. We are slowly finding some without the internet, but it’s by guess and by golly and much more time consuming.
About noon we got our list of people to go visit and started out by catching the bus and traveling to our first address only to find out Maria Weingartner no longer lived there. We talked to a neighbor who told us she thought Maria had moved into an assisted living center about a year ago. We took the opportunity to introduce ourselves and asked her if she’d like to hear more about the restored gospel, but she said she was satisfied with her present religion. We offered her a brochure and an Article of Faith card which she graciously accepted.
At the second address two little boys, Jordan (about 6) and Tito (about 4) opened the door. We asked to talk to Kofi Safo-Adu, their father, but they said he wasn’t home. We asked to talk to their mother, but she went with Kofi somewhere. They were fun to talk to for a minute and then we told them who we were and that we’d come back later to see if the parents were home. We didn’t think it a good idea for the parents of these little kids to leave them alone and especially, not to have trained them to leave the door locked and not open it for anyone except the parents. It could have been, though, that a lady coming into the apartment building let us in, too, so we were able to go up to Kofie’s apartment door and ring the bell. Maybe the kids thought we were their parents. Who knows?
When we got on the bus to ride to our next stop a young man got on with us who was wearing a baseball cap with a Y on the front. Diana asked him if he studied at BYU, but he didn’t seem to know what that was. We explained about BYU, but didn’t get a chance to go further with the discussion because a man approached us who recognized we were missionaries. He introduced himself as Sylvian Gardedieu, the husband of Sylvia. He said he was looking for work and just applied at an assisted living home as a cook. That has been his occupation. We had a good conversation until we got to the Bahnhof (train station).
From there we went by foot a couple of blocks to see if Nerina Fleury was home. We rang the buzzer a few times, but nobody answered. We stood at the door, which was right on the street in the busy old town section, deciding what we should do next. We were there about five minutes and were just getting ready to leave when the door opened. We were glad we were still there when she came. It took her that long to get to the door because she had just undergone an operation on her foot to correct a club foot. They had also done some skin grafts that didn’t take and they had to do them all over. She said she had gone back to her previous church, the Seventh Day Adventists, because the steep hill to our church building was too difficult for her to climb. We asked her if we could come in to visit with her, but she said she was too tired right then and not home very much anyway. We thanked her for her time and will talk to S. Gardedieu about what we can do to help Nerina.
The last hour and a half of the afternoon we rode buses around trying to use the map, the GPS and our eyes to locate other addresses of less-active members. We were successful in locating approximately where a few more are, but decided to postpone trying to visit them because the hour was getting late. While we were riding around and looking at our maps, a lady saw us and asked if we were looking for anything specific. This gave us another opportunity to introduce ourselves and what we were doing. She said she had a Book of Mormon and had talked to the missionaries and thought it was all pretty great, but she wasn’t anxious to let us come by to talk to her again. Diana gave her an Article of Faith card as she got off the bus anyway and she accepted it.
The bus system here is quite different than in Zurich probably because Schaffhausen is a lot smaller and there are no trams. There are six buses, #’s 1, 3, 4, 5, 6 and 8 that service Schaffhausen. They all go on their separate lines from one end station to the other end and they all have the train station in Schaffhausen City at their mid-point. All the buses arrive at the train station at about the same time, wait there a few minutes, and then leave one after the other. If you’re on one bus and need to transfer to another, you have to be on the ball to get there before they all leave again. It’s quite a sight to see all of the buses come in together and then go out together.
Tonight we read our lesson manual for tomorrow and worked at getting prepared for district meeting and trying to get some spiritual thoughts lined up for our meetings with S. Gardedieu. We also have to prepare a home evening for next Thursday and think about what to do for an English lesson for next Friday.
JANUARY 24, 2010 SUNDAY
Anxious not to be late to Church the first Sunday we were on our own, I miscalculated the time we should have gotten up by one hour. Not one hour late, but one hour early. I finished showering and shaving and then went back to bed for a little while until Diana had to get up to get ready. While she was doing that I was able to go over the lesson for Priesthood meeting again and otherwise collect the things we needed. At 8:30 we caught our bus to the bahnhof and then walked the short, but steep road to the Church. Even though we arrived a half hour early there were already quite few people there before us. Sylvian Gardedieu was there and greeted us. He also brought us a bottle of raspberry and a bottle of fruit jam that he’d made himself. What a thoughtful guy. Our two speakers for sacrament meeting, who came from other wards, had already arrived, too, and they were greeting the members as they came. Today the chapel was two thirds filled. We met a few more members and learned the relationship between others a little better. We also met Paul Hunziker who is 75 years old. He’s not a member, but has been coming to Church faithfully for a few years. We don’t know him well enough yet to know why he isn’t baptized even though missionaries have met with him on and off all this time.
Both of the visiting speakers, a sister from the stake YW presidency and a brother from the stake YM presidency, spoke on the “For the Strength of Youth” pamphlet. The brother also told his conversion story which was very faith promoting. He talked of having to overcome word of wisdom habits and I saw Sylvain paying close attention. After the meeting Sylvain spoke at length with him, hopefully getting pointers on how to overcome his drinking problem. And then we split into our various meetings, me to Melchizedek Priesthood, and Diana to Relief Society.
Diana said Relief Society was really good because the sister leading the discussion taught first in German and then repeated it in English which helped her a lot, not only to understand the lesson, but also to help her with the language. She also had every one participate during the lesson by giving each one an assignment or having them read something. She had each one at various times give a scripture related to what point of the lesson that was under discussion at the time. Diana was impressed with how the sister got everyone to participate.
In priesthood meeting we discussed Chapter Two in the lesson manual. The brother leading the discussion asked questions and the seven of us in the class were expected to respond. Things went along pretty good until one of my responses included that God was omniscient (all knowing) and that his increase comes from creating more worlds and spirits to dwell on them. He said he’d read something Joseph Smith had said that God isn’t all knowing and that he is still accumulating knowledge. This generated a discussion among the rest who were careful not to hurt the instructor’s feelings, but I stood firm. If God doesn’t know everything and is still learning, then he can’t be a perfect being and is subject to making mistakes. Therefore, if that’s the case, he would cease to be God. He said he would bring the quote from Joseph Smith next week for us to read ourselves. I need to be prepared with scripture etc. to lovingly, but firmly, remove the doubt that this brother has regarding God’s omniscience. Other than that we had a good class.
After the meetings were over Bishop Flammia came over and talked with me for awhile. He asked if I had our report ready for him. I told him we didn’t exactly know who to give our report to so we didn’t bring one today. He said if we wanted, he could just call us and get it over the phone. We told him it’s no trouble to make one out and we’d be sure to do it in the future. We discussed some the the things we did last week and told him we planned to visit Kofi Dafo-Adu this afternoon. He asked if he could come with us and, of course, we told him it would be a pleasure. He said he’d pick us up at home at 1:45. Brother DeMarzi broke into our conversation and insisted I come upstairs (Diana was already there) to meet with him, Sylvia and Diana. I excused myself and hurried upstairs. Brother DeMarzi wanted to start us off right by introducing the Ward motto and gave us and Sylvia a copy of it enclosed in a nice picture frame to hang on our wall. The motto is Joshua 1:9 and Moses 1:39:
Be strong and of good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee withersoever thou goest.
Sei mutig und stark? Fuerchte dich also nicht und hab keine Angst; denn der Herr, dein Gott, ist mit dir bei allem, was du unternimmst. Joshua 1:9
For behold, this is my work and my glory–to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man..
Denn siehe, dies ist meine Herrichkeit–die Unsterlichkeit und das ewige Leben des Menschen zustande zu bringen. Moses 1:39
He particularly emphasized “be strong and of good courage” and wanted us to focus on this when we visit and meet with members in the course of our labors. He feels that members in a small branch need to be reminded to have courage and be strong and that they are not alone although few in numbers.
From there we left and went home and got a bite to eat. Bishop Flammia was going to pick us up at 1:45 and we used the time in between to write our report. We barely got it finished by the time he drove up. We went to Kofi’s home and this time he was home with his two kids. We introduced ourselves and had a good meeting with him. He is 39 years old, from Ghana and has been in Switzerland for eight years. His wife is a beautician and works in Winterthur six days a week and normally gets home about 8:00 p.m. Her only day to rest is Sunday and she was in her bedroom sleeping so we didn’t get a chance to meet her. He has applied for a job and hopes he gets it. He speaks English and a little German, but can’t read very well or write. The previous missionaries have tried to help him learn and we’ll continue. We have appointments set up with him for Saturday and Sunday at 5:00 and will meet with him at the Church. He said he would come to Church next Sunday. His one son Tito has a hearing problem and therefore has a problem speaking and is also hyperactive. His other son we thought was named Jordan is actually John and is eight years old instead of six. When we found out John was eight, we asked him if he’d like to get baptized. He had no idea what that was and asked us to explain it to him. We did, but it’ll take some time for him to understand because he really hasn’t been taught anything. Kofi is a convert of about ten months himself. After we left, Bishop Flammia told us that John would need to come to Church regularly before he would consider letting John be baptized.
Bishop Flammia asked us if we knew where Paul Hunsiker lived. We responded we didn’t so he drove us there to show us. Instead of just driving by he parked his van and went to his building, rang the bell and we were let in. Paul loves to talk and mostly talks about his missionary work, not for our Church because he’s not a member, but for Jesus Christ. He loves to preach about the bible and has, according to him, spread the word diligently wherever he’s been. He’s organized bible study groups, taken bibles into East Germany when it was behind the Iron Curtain, and done many other good things. Bishop Flammia suggested he may not want to become a member because he fears he may loose his bible study friends and associates. He’s a good old guy and wants us to come and visit him. He said if we come from 11:00 to 1:00 we can have lunch with him and if we come near dinner time, he’ll fix us dinner. We just have to let him know we’re coming.
On the way home Bishop Flammia drove us past where Sister Greta Troesch lives so we would be able to find it later in the week. Greta is 90 years old and is very active. After this week she’s going to Sweden for a three week vacation and Bishop Flammia wants us to visit her before she leaves. He said she has done so much for the Church including being Relief Society President in the stake or branch for over thirty years. He wishes he could keep her on this good earth until she is 120.
As we were riding around with Bishop Flammia we asked him questions about where other members live and some of their background. He was very helpful and seems to be well informed and concerned about his flock. We can tell he is a good bishop and we’ll do everything we can to support him. We already love this little branch and hope we can lend our support to build this part of the Kingdom. However, we feel cut off from the rest of the world and maybe that part of the Lord’s plan to help us build relationships with the members of this ward without distractions.
The tender mercy of the Lord is that there are always people to serve and when we serve we are happy. It’s intimidating to meet and talk to people and feeling inadequate to meet their needs. But when we exercise faith and do the best we can, the Lord will take care of the rest.