


The Swiss love flags; My hat was stuffed inside my coat & Chris standing by; Statehouse in Bern.
MAY 14, 2010 FRIDAY
We woke up this morning to an overcast sky and a light rain. As the day progressed the clouds got lighter, but the sun didn’t break through. It was kind of misty all day long, got a little more serious in the evening and by the time we came home it was kind of misting lightly again. We hope it will be better tomorrow, but the forecast says it’ll probably be the same as today.
This morning we prepared for Sylvain to come for his appointment at 10:00 by reading Step Four in the alcohol recovery workbook and discussing what we wanted to accomplish in this meeting. We always pray for help because we know the Lord knows what people need and hopefully we’ll be in tune with the Spirit. We also had a lunch appointment at 12:30 today so we prepared a spiritual thought which is always expected by members after a nice meal. We were also able to spend a little time reading Sunday’s gospel doctrine lesson, Joshua chapters 1-6 and 23-24.
When Sylvain arrived at 10:00, we could tell he was down in the dumps and feeling sorry for himself. After a prayer we went right to work on him. We told him he should count his blessing and focus on the things he should be thankful for and to not focus on his problems. The best way to cheer up was to look for opportunities to serve others. There are plenty of others who are worse off than we are and when we help them, our troubles seem to melt away or to not seem so overwhelming. We had him write down his goals and focus on them. And then we went to work on step four which is TRUTH. This step requires the person to take an inventory of his life and write down every event, relationship, thought, emotion, action or feeling that has had an impact for good or for bad in his life. The workbook gives helpful suggestions on how to do it and the reason it’s necessary. “Your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are actually the roots of your addictive behavior (including sadness, regret, anger, resentment, fear, bitterness).” “Your addiction is a symptom of other causes and conditions.” This is a rather daunting but necessary task and one that takes courage to dig deep in a self analysis. We hope he can do it. By the end of the hour and a half he was in better spirits and left with a positive attitude again.
After Sylvain left we got ready and left ourselves to go meet Paul at his home to go to our lunch appointment with Greta Troesch. We got off the bus at his bus stop and as we were walking to his apartment, we saw him walking on the other side of the street. We caught his attention and crossed the street and together we walked back to the bus stop on his side of the street. We climbed into the bus when it came and rode to a stop near where Greta lived. We could have taken a different bus at the bahnhof that would have dropped us off right at Greta’s door, but Paul would have had to punch his bus pass two times instead of just once. As it was it only took us about ten minutes to walk to Greta’s apartment. She had lunch ready for us so we didn’t waste any time getting started. She started us off with a wonderful green salad followed by the main dish, sliced steak in a delicious brown sauce over rice. The sauce had diced peppers and spices in it which helped it taste like stuffed peppers. For dessert she werved us sliced strawberries with cream on top. Mmmmm. It’s no wonder her son (she’s 88 years old) still comes over every Monday and Wednesday to enjoy her cooking. After we were through we gave her a spiritual thought which generated a good discussion, and then we had to go.
We made it back to the bahnhof and then caught the train to Jestetten to do the shopping we wanted to do yesterday. When we get off the train in Jestetten, we have 50 minutes to get to the store, buy what we need or want, and get back to the station to catch the train again. This gives us plenty of time, but we seem to hurry and then end up waiting longer than we would need to back at the train station. However, depending on how busy the store is, sometimes we end up standing in line a long time to check out. The ride back home was uneventful except that the border police were right there when we got off the train in Schaffhausen. We think we’re always in compliance with the import laws, but just the same they make us a little nervous. We didn’t need to worry as they let us walk on by even though they eyed the four bags we were carrying.
We took the groceries back to our apartment and then left again to travel to the airport to meet Monica and Chris coming back from Scotland. We got there plenty early so we went into the airport MIGROS and bought some drinks for later on. Then we went to the arrival gate and cooled our heals. We didn’t know the flight number nor the departure location so it was hard to know if or when their airplane would arrive or had arrived already. At one point we almost decided we had missed them and were thinking about going back home without them. Our train back to Schaffhausen left once an hour so we decided to take the next train back to see if they had slipped by us. However, all’s well that ends well. Chris and Monica showed up about 15 minutes before our train left which gave us enough time to buy them a train pass and then catch the train.
Back at home we quickly put together a dinner of macaroni salad and Mexican beans over rice, Diana’s specialty. We ate until we were about ready to pop, but that didn’t stop us from visiting. Over dinner we decided we may try to visit Luzern tomorrow and then take a boat ride on Vierwaldstaedtersee. We’ll see how things go tomorrow. In between everything else we managed to do a load of whites today.
We got a call from Elder Bentley who gave us assignments for our next district meeting. Diana has the closing song and prayer and I have the German tip. He called later to ask us if it would be okay if he took ibuprofen while taking antibiotics.
A tender mercy is that we have Monica and Chris with us here tonight.